Your opinion on the abuse in my family?

Dear Crystal, First of all I am so sorry you were abused like that as a child,no one should ever be treated like that. I was raised in a abusive home as well,your not alone. I understand all to well about learning to cope with the abuse that we suffered with through are childhoods. Your adoptive parents should be in prison as we speak,and they know it. It is know telling how they were raised them shelves.Most people who abuse others,were usually abused by there parents or other relatives somewhere in there past. I,ve done a lot of research over the years and have learned a lot of interesting things. If you have not spoken to a doctor about all of this,I would do it right away and have your sister do the same. This way when you decide to finally have a family someday,you will no how too treat your children in the right way,and so will your sister. Goodluck and God Bless You Both.